Having a preference is not racist. A question tho, please answer would I be culturally appropriating if I married out side my ethnic group?

Please please please make it stop! Everybody has preferences. Would you date a murderer? No? Well then you have a preference to not date murderers. It should not be an issue if someone simply doesnt find certain qualities attractive, whether that be hobbies, lifestyles, race, etc.

Im sorry but people having preferences isn't Racist, people have preferences for everything from the color of their socks to what they eat.

Explain to your partner that you understand that most people have no understanding of Genealogy.

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